Saygı: Respect or Exploitation?

This post features heavy discussions of sexual assault. Reader discretion is advised.

When BluTV first released the trailer to their Original Series Saygı, I was beyond excited about it. Saygı is a spin-off of the well-loved and acclaimed dizi, Behzat Ç, and saw the return of Behzat’s writer, Ercan Mehmet Erdem. Though I hadn’t watched Behzat Ç, I was fascinated by the premise of Saygı and the promise of a revenge story that spoke about social issues, such as violence against women in Turkey.

The issue of violence against women, femicide, and mobbing are critical conversation in Turkish culture. In the summer of 2020, thousands of Turkish women took to the streets to protest against gender-based violence and demand that the Turkish government keep the Istanbul Convention in place. So it comes as no surprise that discussion of violence against women has come up again and again in dizilands. From dizis like Yeni Hayat and Menajerim Ara (which addressed the problem in various episodes), to fans who take to social media to protest against scenes that perpetuate the violence, Turkish media is filled with this discussion.

Saygı primarily focuses on Helen and Savaş, a couple, who both are victims of sexual assault. Having killed their abusers, they decide to become vigilantes and take justice into their own hands. Along the way, their paths cross with Ercüment Çözer, a sociopath, who is obsessed with respect. As Savaş, Helen, and Ercüment’s lives become more entwined with each other danger looms. The dizi explores the ramifications of their decisions.  

After watching all of the episodes, it is very clear that Saygı is not your average dizi. When I say that Saygı is a beautiful show I genuinely mean that. The cinematography of the show is honestly quite breathtaking and the actors are great in their roles. However, what made Saygı stand out is the writing. The writers are clearly skilled in their craft. The eight-episode season really allowed the writers to pay attention to the details of the story and characters. The product is a thought-provoking, daring, and truly meaningful series that is filled with symbolism and philosophical discussions. 

Savaş vs. Toxic Masculinity

In a review of the first episode of Saygı, the Youtuber Safé broke down different ideas and discussed the way patriarchy is so ingrained in Turkish culture that it enforces certain gender roles and expectations. Women are expected to be chaste and men exist in a position of authority and dominance. This idea is immediately subverted through the introduction of Helen and Savaş. 

Savaş, unlike the majority of the male characters introduced in the dizi, acts as a foil against toxic masculinity. He respects Helen and her desires. He never assumes that just because he feels affection for her, he has a right to assert dominance over her. This is especially true in their first date where he doesn’t presume he has a right to force himself upon her, kiss her, or have sex with her. Instead Helen initiates their connection.

Savaş is also the first victim of assault between the two, showing the cruel reality that men, no matter how strong, can also be victims of assault. The show never frames Savaş’s assault or his struggle with it as something that he should be ashamed. He instead continuously displays a range of emotions subverting ideas of toxic masculinity that would label him weak.

Helen, on the other hand, is covered in tattoos, speaks her mind, and doesn’t put up with shit from anyone. She is the one that initiates the majority of their relationship and is the one that suggests and enforces their lives as vigilantes. Unlike Savaş, Helen is unaffected by the murders. In fact, she is almost narcissistic, believing that their form of justice is the only form out there.

This goes against the common perception that women are chaste and the more emotional of the genders. The show goes through great lengths to depict Helen and Savaş’s relationship as one that goes against common stereotypical ideas of gender roles.

Savaş, Helen, and The Bard

As Safé states in her review, the Dizi uses a lot of imagery and symbolism. An instance of symbolism (that was clear to me) had to do with the plays that Helen’s Theatre club performs.

Helen as Miranda in Saygı 1.01

The first play is Shakespeare’s The Tempest where Helen plays the part of Miranda, the daughter to Prospero. Helen re-enacts Act 1 Scene 2 of The Tempest where Miranda insults Caliban, Prospero’s “demon” slave. Miranda tells him that though she taught him to talk and tried to teach him to be good there was something bad in his blood. This is the reason that he is enslaved and was locked in a cave. If you know The Tempest you might be aware that Caliban’s enslavement is punishment for trying to rape Miranda.

This speech works in two parts. Firstly, it alludes to Ercüment “Rehabilitation Facility”. Ercüment seems to be trying to teach his prisoners’ respect, but ultimately kills them because teaching them good is meaningless. They are bad to the bone. The other thing that the scene foreshadows is Helen’s path. Hints of this are shown when Savaş tells Helen that he believes Helen and Miranda are the same people.

Ercüment “Rehabilitation Facility”

In the play, Miranda is a naïve character that can see the beauty in the world and is a “slave” to her dad’s games. However, she is brave of heart and is spirited. Helen depicts all of these traits, but the most obvious parallel (and an instance of foreshadowing) comes because when Helen and Miranda both victims of rape attempts. Furthermore, Miranda’s speech to Caliban could show Helen’s eventual relationship with Ercüment, seeing that Prospero and Miranda, like Ercüment and Helen, believe that men cannot be taught to be good and must be punished.

Macbeth is the other play featured in Saygı and is another huge influence on the narrative. Macbeth is a play about a Scottish general, Macbeth, who is told by three witches that he will become King of Scotland. This motivates him to kill the King. However, Macbeth is plagued by worry and is only capable of the murder because his wife, Lady Macbeth, persuades him to do it. When the murder is done Macbeth takes the crown but is filled with paranoia and becomes tyrannical, killing all of those who would stand in his way. Macbeth is also filled with guilt and is haunted by the ghost of Banquo, his closest friend who he killed to keep the Crown. In contrast, Lady Macbeth becomes more hesitant towards murder and tries to talk Macbeth out of it. She becomes consumed by guilt and eventually loses her mind, taking her own life. At the end of the play due to his tyranny, Macbeth has the throne taken from him, and he dies.

Lady Macbeth is often described as Shakespeare’s most bloodthirsty and infamous female character. She plots to murder the king, and is more ruthless and ambitious than her husband, having to manipulate him to commit the murder.

Helen finds herself in a very similar position, being the bloodthirsty one between the two and has to convince Savaş to continue their vigilantism. Savaş, on the other hand, parallels Macbeth and is filled with paranoia and guilt about his actions. Throughout the Dizi, Savaş sees a doe, which could parallel Macbeth’s hallucination of Banquo. 

Miray Daner as the character of Lady Macbeth in Saygı

An interesting thing to note is the character of Banquo in Macbeth. Banquo could be described as Macbeth’s “frenemy” and is the first character to suspect Macbeth of killing the King. When Macbeth decides to kill Banquo to keep the crown, he doesn’t consult his wife, which affects their marriage. In the scenes that follow Lady Macbeth grapples with her guilt.

Similarly, the character that suspects Helen and Savaş is Aybars, Helen’s ex. Savaş decides to confront Aybars without consulting Helen, which adds to the tension in their relationship. Their relationship troubles grow when it is revealed that Savaş killed Aybars. His death is the first time we see Helen be remorseful about murder, really causes a rift in Helen and Savaş love, and asks the question of whether the couple has gone too far.

Reality or Exploitation?

Though Saygı is a deeply ambitious show that wanted to discuss social issues and use philosophical theories and literary allusions to do so, there was something off-putting about the show. As I watched Saygı, it became very evident to me that Saygı somewhat fit into the structure of the exploitation film, in particular the rape-revenge film. 

An exploitation film is a film genre that emerged in the 1920s but was popularised in the 60s-70s due to the relaxing of censorship laws in the U.S. and Europe. An exploitation film is a film that attempted to capitalize on exploiting current trends, niche genres, or lurid content.

The rape-revenge film is sub-genre of the exploitation film. It commonly depicts a character who is raped, recovers from their assault, and exacts a cruel and graphic revenge. Women are most commonly the victim and protagonists of such films. The genre has received much praise by feminists due to the reversal of traditional gender roles and the agency the female character gains through the act of revenge. 

Saygı fits into the story structure of a rape-revenge film by having both Helen and Savaş be assaulted early in the show before following their exploits as they seek revenge. However, it subverts expectations by having Savaş be a victim of sexual assault, going against the image that women are the only victims of such violence. Yet that doesn’t deter from the gross way that Saygı plays into the negative expectations of the genre.

In recent years the genre has come under fire from various critics in regards to the way that the sexual assault is depicted. The violence and the assault is generally graphic and prolonged, turning a story about women rising out of trauma, into something of torture porn. 

Both Savaş and Helen’s assault is depicted in a very graphic and explicit way. While I was somewhat okay with watching the graphic nature of Savaş’s assault (because it took me off guard and subverted my expectations), I hated Helen’s assault. The fact that Helen’s assault is filmed so explicitly and is prolonged, in comparison to Savaş’s assault, left me uncomfortable. Great detail was taken into framing the scenes of Helen’s vulnerable unconscious body, her abuser unclothing himself and her, and Helen’s helpless state as she tried to escape. 

I remember the first time watching the episode and not being able to finish watching the episode after that scene. I remember feeling so uncomfortable by the explicit nature of the scene and remember wondering why it existed. Especially since we had just gotten a scene of an assault in the previous episode. I do not believe that Helen’s assault was necessary to construct a plausible motivation for her revenge. With Savaş’s assault already established, with various scenes depicting how women are mistreated in Turkey, and by showing Helen to be aware of these issues was enough for me. In my opinion, all of these things could have bubbled up in her life creating a motive, especially since Helen is depicted as a volatile character. 

Various forms of media have depicted disturbing and explicit scenes of rape and assault. Books like the A Song of Ice and Fire series (the books that Game of Thrones is based on), TV-like Thirteen Reasons Why, and films like The Nightingale have depicted it. When asked about the decision to add these scenes the writers, directors, and show runners all answered with the same thing: that it is something that happens in reality and so it is important to depict it.

Perhaps this is the reason that the scenes of assault in Saygı are depicted so graphically and gratuitously, because it is a Turkish reality. Yet, by trying to drive home a message about the reality of sexual assault, the show’s disturbing and graphic scenes become something of torture porn, which does more damage than good.

The other reason that I was very critical is that it becomes a black and white motive without depicting the reality of the effects that assault has on people. The assault of the protagonist in a rape-revenge film is generally used as a plot device that is a short cut for character development. It allows the audience to see the character go from a state of being a happy-go-lucky/naïve/innocent/helpless to one that is heartless/cruel/a badass without truly developing the change. Sansa’s character in Game of Thrones is a perfect example of this. The plot of the rape-revenge film, while it may seem to empower, does not depict the reality of sexual assault on its victims or the after-effects of it. 

In an interview with the showrunner of Hannibal, Bryan Fuller, he discussed different reasons why he refuses to write scenes of rape and assault in his shows. One thing that he mentions is that he feels like:

TV inadequately addresses the aftermath of something like sexual assault, trying to wrap up the events for the character who experienced them “in 42 minutes.”

Bryan Fuller, “TV Showrunners Talk Rape-As-Character-Development and What Needs to Happen to Stop the Lazy Use of This Trope”

This is exactly what we see happen in Saygı with little of the aftermath of Savaş and Helen’s sexual assault explored. Neither Savaş nor Helen depict any form of PTSD or change to who they are as a result of the assault. The only thing that the assault does is fuel their need for revenge. The show never truly tries to understand the vulnerable position that victims of sexual assault find themselves in. 

It is important to note, that victims of sexual assault react to their assault in different ways. While being assaulted, some may fight back, freeze, or flee. The Counselling Centre at Loyola University lists various ways in which people react to assault, from becoming scared of everything to having flashbacks and reliving the moment again and again, to being depressed or blaming one’s self for the assault.

Savaş and Helen react the same way under duress, fighting back. After that, there are little scenes that address the aftermath of their assault. Though it may seem like we see instances of it when Savaş locks himself in his room, acts out on the bus, or has flashbacks, the writers tie these experiences more to to Savaş’s guilt for killing the taxi driver rather than to his sexual assault.

The other issue that I had in regards to Savaş’s assault was the fact that the taxi driver that assaults him is written as a gay coded man. In her review, Safé points out that the scene may be used to discuss social hypocrisy in Turkish culture and the way that homophobia and the patriarchy are enforced.

While this may be true, I could not help but notice that the taxi driver is the only character that is written as being gay coded. In a Youtube video called “Sexual Assault of Men Played for Laughs”, the Youtuber, Popular Culture Detective explains that if the assault is conducted by a gay coded men it enforces the idea that gay men are predatory and a danger.

If the perpetrator is coded as a gay man, or a character of ambiguous sexual identity then sexual assault is usually framed as a product of some uncontrollable sexual desire, which then works to demonize gay men by directly linking them to predatory behaviour. It’s made worse if, as is often the case, the rapist is the only gay coded character in the whole production.

Pop Culture Detective, Sexual Assault of Men Played for Laughs – Part 1 Male Perpetrators

 A Violent Contradiction.

The other issue I had when it came to the conversations of sexual assault had to do with the various instances of contradiction. For example, in the first episode, Ercüment meets a woman in a bar who tells him about one of her colleagues who has been harassing her. In the scenes that follow we see what Ercüment believes should happen to men who mob women, he imprisons the man in his rehabilitation facility. Through this, it is clear that the act of mobbing and harassment is bad.

Immediately following the scene Savaş is introduced, and it is revealed that he has been attending Helen’s play for eight days straight. He has been doing so in hopes of seeing her, though she is not aware of his presence. He has been doing exactly what Ercüment condemned earlier and yet here it is framed as an act of romance. Savaş and Helen’s relationship is depicted as this great romantic love story, yet it is one that starts with the act of stalking.

Another example of this stark contrast comes in the form of the scene where Savaş is assaulted. In the scene, Savaş is talking to the taxi driver who is discussing things that make Savaş uncomfortable. Though Savaş tries to get the driver to stop talking, the driver ignores him. This is exasperated when the driver reaches over and grabs Savaş. Savaş tries to fight off the taxi driver and eventually kills him in an act of self-defence. We are supposed to empathise with Savaş, seeing he is the victim, and the taxi driver is in the wrong. This is why the scene where Helen confronts Aybars about Savaş falls flat to me.

In the scene in question, Helen is agitated by the fact that Aybars got Savaş fired. Aybars confesses to Helen that he was worried about her safety. (In a previous episode Helen has a bruise on her face from her acts of vigilantism and Aybars assumed Savaş hit her). Helen reacts aggressively by pushing Aybars before grabbing him by the groin. She tells him that she can defend herself and demands that he quit the play. Aybars is clearly in pain and doesn’t want Helen touching him, which he articulates by asking her to stop. He eventually gives in to her demands and she leaves.

Helen confronting her ex-boyfriend Aybars

In essence, Helen is enacting the same form of violence that Savaş was a victim to in the first episode, yet here it is framed differently. Here the camera immediately pans towards Helen and Aybars and the music picks up in a way that makes this scene seem thrilling. Aybars’ pleas are ignored and even though he finds himself in Savaş’s place, the narrative does not ask the audience to empathise with him. Here Helen is the character that the narrative depicts empathetically and the scene is almost framed as an act of “girl power” with Helen being the one to assert authority and dominance.

While Helen’s confrontation with Aybars could be used to create similarities between Ercüment and Helen or to show Helen’s loss of humanity, it still is a very horrible scene. This is especially true seeing the show takes such lengths to condemn acts of sexual violence. In the same video essay by the Popular Culture Detective they state:

“When media depicts the sexual assault of a man, even a bad man as ‘getting what they deserve’, it perpetuates rape acceptance.”

The fact that this is the message in a show that seems to be condemning sexual assault is very upsetting and normalises assault in a country that already has such a huge problem with it.

Enter: the Nazis

As previously established, another marker of the exploitation film is the fact that it exploits current trends, which is apparent in the depiction of sexual assault. However, the more I watched Saygı the more apparent it became that the writers of the dizi were appealing to the rise of films and TV that depict alternative Nazi history or neo-Nazis. From TV shows like Hunters, Watchmen, The Plot Against America, The Man in High Castle to films like Jojo Rabbit, Resistance, BlacKkKlansman and even superhero media like Captain America, media is being saturated by such stories. 

Within the Turkish context of Saygı, the introduction of Ercüment’s grandmother as a Nazi sympathiser and Hitler’s mistress was confusing. From what I can tell, Turkey did not play a huge part during WWII and there were little ties between Turkey and Nazi Germany. However, that being said, Turkey could currently have an issue with neo-Nazis and Hitler sympathisers, and the writers of Saygı could be depicting that reality. Whatever the reason for the introduction of Ercüment’s grandmother, the fact that her character was tied to Nazi Germany left me confused. 

I didn’t understand the importance that was placed on her being a Nazi and how it added to Ercüment’s character arc. Most people I have talked to about it have attributed it as a way to explain Ercüment’s character, that perhaps Ercüment’s actions reflect his upraising under the care of a cruel and unloving Nazi. Perhaps there was supposed to be a connection made between Hitler killing his dogs to the senseless acts of violence that occur every day in Turkey, including to animals. Another reason that has been suggested is that it adds depth and darkness to the story, as well as giving a fresh twist to the evil grandmother trope. 

Meghan O’Keefe, at “Decider”, wrote an article about popular culture and the reimagining of Nazi History. She argued that shows like Hunters, The Plot Against America and The Man in High Castle often depict Nazis as cartoon-like villains. This showed the fractured understanding that writers have of Nazis and the threat they posed (and still pose). 

When Hunters was released it received a lot of criticism for its depiction of the Holocaust and Nazis. One of these criticisms came from the Auschwitz Memorial, who stated that the show was historically inaccurate, dangerous, and made the Nazis into a caricature.

The show’s creator David Weil responded by stating that the show was a dramatic series with fictional characters and not a documentary. Thus it didn’t have to remain historically accurate.

To this, the Auschwitz Memorial replied by reaffirming that this attitude was disrespectful and dangerous.

The superhero genre is one that is rift with alternative Nazi history. The most popular character that has entered popular culture when it comes to this discussion is probably Steve Rogers, Captain America. However, it is important to note that the  Captain America comics was created by two Jewish men, Jack Kirby and Joe Simon. Captain America was first introduced during WWII. Thus, his interaction with Hitler was the deliberate choice of two Jewish men who wanted to see a super-hero punch Hitler as well as encourage the war efforts during WWII.

Seeing I am neither Jewish nor do I have any family who was involved in WWII, I don’t feel like I am in the position to truly state if Saygı’s re-imagining of Nazi History is disrespectful. However, I will say that while watching the show I was very confused about its importance to the story. I firmly believe that the same point could have been made without the addition of Ercüment’s grandmother being a Nazi sympathiser and Hitler’s mistress.

Much like how assault is depicted in Saygı, we see the introduction of Hitler used as a plot device and a short cut for Ercüment’s character development. Ultimately for me, this deterred from a very good show, added nothing to the story, and could potentially be deemed disrespectful to the victims and survivors of the Holocaust. 

The Ending (or Lack of One Therefore)

All of this ties to my final issue with Saygı: the ending and the presence of Savaş’s doe. Various folks have questioned what the doe symbolised in the narrative. Was it supposed to be an allusion to Shakespeare? A representation of Savaş’s deteriorating mental health? Perhaps a symbol of innocence, justice, or hope?

The way that the doe functions in the narrative and is framed within various scenes is very reminiscent to the popular American TV series Hannibal. One could argue that the writers of Saygı were paying a homage to Hannibal or that they were inspired by it.

Hannibal 1.06 / Saygı 1.02

However, others still could make an argument that through the doe we see another element of exploitation, plagiarism. All of this ultimately doesn’t matter. Though it is funny when you take into consideration what Bryan Fuller said about assault and how Saygı, a show seemingly inspired in part by Fuller’s work, depicted it.

Whatever the doe symbolises, it ultimately didn’t work for me, especially in regards to the end of the show. At the end of the show, Helen has decided to side with Ercüment and leave Savaş. Savaş finds himself captured in Ercüment’s rehabilitation facility, with only a window to the outside world for company. He looks out his window and sees the doe finding a moment of reprieve before Helen is somehow able to kill the deer.

Savaş watching Helen kill the doe.

This is pivotal because it shows the change in Helen and Savaş’s character. Helen is now depicted as a character that has sided with Ercüment and has lost her humanity. Savaş, the most moral and “normal” character between the trio is in prison, with no hope of escape. We see allusions to The Tempest, with Ercüment and Helen almost playing the father-daughter duo of Prospero and Helen, and Savaş in the role of Caliban. 

Yet, it didn’t work for me here because while the message in The Tempest may be that demonic creatures like Caliban cannot become good through education, this is not the reality when it comes to equality and human rights. For a patriarchal and violent society to reach a point where equality exists, education is vital. 

Truth be told humans are not inherently bad. The ideology of the patriarchy is not something that people are born with, it is something that people are born into. It is something that is taught every day. It is taught when boys are told not to cry or seem weak, when girls are taught that their place is the domestic sphere, when men aren’t held accountable for their actions, and when women are expected to put up with violence.

People need to be educated on different elements of human rights and feminism so that they might be able to unpack it, unlearn it, and do away with it. In doing so they will be able to raise a generation of children who aren’t victims to the cruelty of the patriarchy.

It is only through education that equality can truly be found. 

Additionally, I feel like the way that writers of Saygı toed the line in making dizi edgy left me disappointed. Saygı ends on a note that would make it seem like a tragedy. In fact, the dizi utilises most of the nine elements of Shakespearean Tragedy. 

I read once that the great appeal of a tragedy is seeing a character go through something horrific that the audience can empathise, even if they don’t succeed. Yet, catharsis can still be found. The catharsis comes from the writer telling the audience that though terrible things happened, the story is still important and has meaning.

For me, Saygı felt like the opposite. It felt like the writers were saying that the world sucks and nothing matters. It doesn’t matter if you pursue something good or bad, your actions are meaningless. It felt like the show was a huge fuck you to the audience, which is pretty apt way to feel considering the ending.

Ercüment in the final shot of Saygı.

While I commend the writers, directors, and creators of Saygı for attempting to discuss such an important issue of violence against women in Turkey, I can’t help but be critical of the way it was depicted in Saygı. For a show named “Respect” the show seemed deeply disrespectful to various individuals, exploiting their plights for the sake of storytelling. The explicit scenes of assault, the homophobia, and the use of Nazi imagery made me feel like the show was exploiting the topic rather than speaking into it in a nuanced way. I believe that Saygı (and media in general) still has a long way to go in depicting the reality of assault and gendered violence.

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Menajerimi Ara 10. Bölüm Review: or the End of an Era

Let me start by saying that I have been hesitant to watch Menajerimi Ara ever since the introduction of Emir and Ekin Atalar taking over as the screenwriter. I didn’t want to judge Menajerimi Ara due to these changes, seeing I believe in giving people the benefit of the doubt.

However, being someone who watched Erkenci Kus and someone who is a huge fan of the DC superhero films, I know how new writers and directors can greatly change the original vision of a movie or show. Thus, though I wanted to enjoy the latest episode of Menajerimi Ara, I found it difficult to watch. In the words of @heviwillnot on Twitter, “the more I write [about episode 10], the more I’m realising they all end with “it doesn’t make sense”. 

Menajerimi Ara is a show that advertised itself as a look into the world of Diziland through the lens of a film agency. The first few episodes introduced and followed the lives of the various agents at Ego Agency all the while telling the story of Dicle and Barış (who some could argue were the main protagonists of the show). While it did all of this, Menajerimi Ara managed to have some pretty iconic Turkish talent guest star from the likes of Burçin Terzioğlu, Çağatay Ulusoy, and Gökçe Bahadır amongst many other huge names. From what I can tell, this is what drew audiences in and had them loving the dizi.

However, ever since the end of the 8th bölüm, the show has taken a turn that I cannot comprehend. The show seems to be revolving solely around Dicle, Beren, Emir and Barış (though he is being significantly side-lined in his own dizi).

We are seeing less and less of the rest of the agents at Ego Agency, unless their plots tie into Dicle, Beren, Emir and Barış’s lives. The guest stars aren’t as famous as the stars that came before the ninth bölüm, and they seem to mostly be written to advertise various products.

This has become more and more rampant in the dizi and makes me wonder if the show is having budgetary issues. The other issue that I had is that it felt like so many of the characters were caricatures of themselves.

Character Types & Menajerimi Ara

There are several character types in fiction. There are the protagonist and the antagonist. Some characters act as foils to other characters and other characters that are there to symbolise something. Two important character types groups include the dynamic and static character, and the round and flat character. 

A dynamic character is a character that goes through a significant internal change throughout the story. The change is typical because of the conflict the character faces. Typically this character is the main protagonist and their conflict is the conflict of the story. In comparison, a static character is a character that does not change or evolve. They maintain the same personality and outlook throughout the story and are usually secondary characters.

source : PlotBoilers

Then we have the round character versus the flat character. A round character is a character that is complex and layered. However, unlike the dynamic character, they do not go through any changes. A flat character, on the other hand, is a character that is one-dimensional and is often noted for having one or two traits that make up their whole personality. Flat characters are almost all static characters, but not all static characters are flat. 

source: flatriniami

While watching Menajerimi Ara the characters that I would expect to go through the most changes and be the epitome of a round character would potentially be Dicle, Barış, Kıraç, and maybe the other agents at Ego Agency. Meral and Emrah are some of the flat/static characters.

A great example of a round character in Menajerimi Ara is Dicle in the seventh episode. The episode plot shows the outcome of Dicle resigning from Ego Agency. By the end of that episode, due to her conflict with Kıraç, Dicle goes through her internal change and decides that she cannot prioritise the men in her life and must look after herself. We see Dicle grow and go through an internal change, that continues throughout the rest of the season. 

Watching the tenth bölüm of Menajerimi Ara felt like the complete opposite of that. It felt like seeing the definition of the phrase “one step forward two steps back” unfold in front of my very eyes. The writers establish one thing, before completely undermining it later, which left little space for any internal change. 

We see Barış, Feris, Kıraç all, rightfully, get upset at Beren for putting Dicle’s career and the agency at risk, only to later ask Beren for forgiveness.

We see Dicle stand up for herself against Beren, only to later ask everyone forgive Beren. We know that Barış has continuously prioritised Dicle’s opinion, yet in this episode, he listens to Beren instead of Dicle. 

So, to clarify, my apprehension about this episode is not about Emir, Dicle, Barış or my feelings about the lack of DicBar. It is not about a ship war for me, its about the fact that the story does not make sense because previously established plot points are being discarded to create drama.

I would also argue that one of the blunders of the tenth bölüm is how so many of the characters, including the previously established round characters, become flat characters. These characters who were previously written with nuance and layers are now written with one or two traits making up their entire personality. Dicle became a character that had strong moments but was sweet and kind to everyone. Barış lost his backbone and became a character that believed whatever others were saying. Beren and Gülin were depicted as just evil (with such strong sway over the plot). 

Beren the B*tch and Forgiveness

If there was one takeaway that various people I follow had about the 10th Bölüm of Menajerimi Ara it was that Beren’s character and plot largely overwhelmed the tenth bölüm… and that she is a bitch

Now, don’t get me wrong, I don’t mind if Beren is depicted as villainous. Do I think it’s overdone when it comes to dizi plots? Yes. Would I like to see her character do something else? Yes. However, how Beren was able to put Dicle’s life and work at risk and face no repercussions was exhausting. The fact that Beren was able to get forgiveness from her father, Barış and keep her job, in @heviwillnot’s words, “doesn’t make sense”. The fact that Beren used the good graces and forgiveness given to her to continue meddling in Dicle’s life was tedious. 

I would argue that Beren being forgiven by everyone points at mischaracterization of Dicle, seeing it is Dicle that asks them to forgive her. Dicle has been established as a layered and multifaceted character. She is sweet and kind and doesn’t want to cause trouble. Yet, she is also established as a character that is willing to do what it takes to grow in the sector. 

Thus, having Dicle ask everyone to forgive Beren, makes no sense for multiple reasons. Mostly because Beren has wronged Dicle and put her job at risk. It would be one thing if Dicle didn’t want to irritate Beren because she didn’t want Beren telling everyone that she is Kıraç’s daughter. However, it is Dicle’s selflessness led her to forgive Beren. As previously established, in previous episode Dicle goes through a journey where she realises that she can’t be as selfless as she is. By having her act so selflessly, we see Dicle regress instead of progress. 

When it comes to Beren’s forgiveness we also need to talk about Barış. Barış has confusing romantic feelings for Dicle. That was the whole point of him looking through his album of pictures of her, that’s why he broke up with Beren and that’s why he wanted to meet up with Dicle. 

Dicle telling Barış that he needs to talk to Beren is what causes him to reconcile with Beren. However, this decision makes no sense when you take into consideration Barış kicking his brother out for hurting Dicle. Even when Dicle talked to him about his brother, Barış still didn’t want to forgive him. So to have Barış be the one asking for forgiveness is really strange and doesn’t make sense. Barış has previously been depicted as a person who was Dicle’s love interest, a protagonist in the show, and someone who would defend Dicle. However, as the episodes continue we see less of that Barış.

Emir the Hero and Housing Issues

A key issue of conflict in this week’s episode was the fact that Dicle is having housing issues. In the episode with Burçin Terzioglu, we learn that Dicle and Meral are being kicked out of their house. I could not help but notice the way that the audience learns of this information. It is situated right after Burçin Terzioglu makes a speech about women being told that they don’t understand things, about violent thinking against women, and about women existing, working, and not keeping silent.       

Right after this powerful speech, Meral is told she needs to move out because the landlord’s son is coming back. Meral knows this is a lie, which is her literally depicting Burçin’s word by showing that women understand what is happening. She is able to learn that her landlord wants to kick them out because neighbours have seen Barış stay the night. The housing issue has carried on through the past two episodes, with Barış offering to help Dicle out, but her turning down his help because she wants to deal with it herself. In the latest episode, Emir is able to fix Dicle’s housing issues and I hated it. 

Part of the reason that I didn’t like the fact that it was Emir that came to Dicle’s rescue, is that the reason that the landlord was kicking Dicle and Meral out is so common in patriarchal societies and is rooted in the patriarchy.

It is rooted in a society that believes women must be kept pure (instead of teaching men how to treat women), in a society where everyone has to say on female autonomy beside the woman herself, and in a society that doesn’t listen to the female voices. With this and Burçin Terzioglu speech in mind, I thought the writers of Menajerimi Ara would use this plot point to discuss important issues. 

You might be aware that I originally presumed Barış was going to help Dicle with her housing issues.

However, after much thought, I came to the conclusion that based on the fact that they made Dicle so independent and reluctant to get his help, this was unlikely.

I then thought how powerful it would have been if Feris helped Dicle because we could have seen two powerful women come together to slowly chip away at dated and patriarchal ideas. 

Another idea would have been to have Kıraç help Dicle and Meral. This would have allowed us to see Kıraç and Dicle bond, as well as showing another way for men to interact with their daughters. It would have shown that daughters are people that can be trusted and that it not them that needs to change, but society. 

However, by having Emir be the one to save Dicle in her housing issues we seeing all of Dicle’s characterization are thrown away so Dicle can exist as a damsel in distress who needs to be saved. 

source : unknown (translated by heviwillnot on twitter)


Menajerimi Ara the End of an Era

With the focus of Menajerimi Ara shifting and focusing more on the drama between Dicle, Beren, Emir and Barış and focusing on Peri Masalı instead of the guest stars we are seeing a new era of storytellingWe are seeing old plot point being discarded (e.g. Barış’s issues with being a celebrity, Barış and Dicle’s relationship, the focus on feminist issues etc.) to focus on relationship drama. 

While there is nothing inherently wrong with these elements of storytelling… they are not for me. I was drawn to the world of Menajerimi Ara due to the promise of seeing this spunky and happy character played by Ahsen attempt to conquer diziland with wondrous guest stars being featured every week. I was promised to see Barış be some form of the main character. I was promised important conversations of feminism. What we have been getting in the past two episodes is not that. 

That being said, I’ve decided to stop watching Menajerimi Ara (and obviously will stop blogging and giffing it) because all I have is anger and frustration to the way the show is being handled. I would like to thank you to everyone who interacted with me on social media about Menajerimi Ara and DicBar. Than you to those who read my blog posts and those who stole my gifs. You have made this experience beautiful.

To the original writers of the show thank you for adapting such a beautiful world allowing us to enter it. 

To Ahsen Eroğlu, Happy Late Birthday! I hope your life is filled with success and the number 22. Thank you for bringing such joy to Dicle. 

To Deniz Can Aktaş I hope you eat as much healthy food as you want. Look after your hands, arms and hair they are a gift. Thank you for playing Barış.

           

           

           

A Dizi(ng) Week (A Recap) : Or A Week Of “Git Me” (Or Some Variant Of It)

This week was a hectic week. With my life going from being in hiatus (due to, you know… the global pandemic) to have to go to job interviews lined up, it was crazy. But nothing would have prepared me for the craziness of events that would occur in dizi land. So let’s start this recap, shall we?

Masumlar Apartmanı or the Gift That Keeps on Giving 

When I first saw the promo and fragments for Masumlar Apartmanı, I wasn’t overly keen on watching the show. However, when the Internet keeps on going on and on about what an amazing show, you have to listen? Right? Needless to say, I had no choice but to watch it… and let me tell I all but screamed!


That’s right, I screamed “VAMPIRE JESUS!” as soon as Birkan Sokullu appeared on my screen, what can I say. You see the first dizi I watched with him in it, was Immortals and let me tell you, Numel had some serious Jesus vibes going for him.

I had a very similar and visceral reaction when Farah Zeynep Abdullah appeared on my screen, seeing the first Dizi I ever watched was Kurt Seyit ve Sura. So, seeing these actors who I had become so familiar with on my screen again was heart-warming. 

Masumlar Apartmanı was a dizi that I was immediately drawn too. The writing of the show is well thought out, the editing is great all making it easy to watch. However, I think what makes this show stand out is the characters and how the cast plays them. Maybe its, because Birkan Sokullu acts in the Turkish remake of This Is Us, but I couldn’t help but compare the show to This Is Us. 

This Is Us is show that has much acclaim for how it depicted the very complicated and beautiful family ties of the Pearson family. It delves into the childhoods of the main characters and delves into how it might shape the way it deals with their lives, all the while dealing with important issues such as addiction, mental health issues, fatphobia, racism, and numerous other issues. 

At first glance, the show could seem like a love story between Han, the only son of his family who is holding his family together and the angel that comes into his life, Inci, with their respective families playing foils in this electric love story. 

However, in the first two episodes, we are immediately shown that all of the characters have such depth and are all dealing with such huge problems. From, Safiye one of Han’s sister who initially seems like just the over-controlling older sister, only to pull back the curtain of her childhood showing how her mother treatment towards her, to Han, who is dealing with his OCD tendencies and Inci who is dealing with the trauma and grief at the loss of her mother. 

Each of these looks into the characters lives and pasts add such a rich element to the storytelling and makes you care about all of the characters. The first two episodes did a really good job in establishing the characters and the complex relationships between them. Farah Zeynep Abdullah and Birkan Sokullu are so charming in the roles of Han and Inci you can’t help but be drawn to them and root for their relationships. In Han’s family and sisters (Safiye, Gulben, Neriman) and father, we see the difficulties and struggles of living with someone who has a mental illness such as OCD. Through Inci we see how loss and grief can change a person. All of this being said I am super excited for the upcoming episode of the show. 

(Also, I will probably be posting a more thorough analysis of the first episode.)

Lastly, because this blog post is called “A Dizi(ng) Week (A Recap) : Or A Week Of “Git Me” (Or Some Variant Of It)”… the episode ends with Inci locked out of her house with Han. Without having any options left, Han says the magical words.

Additional Thoughts/Questions

  • Though the first two episodes of the show seem great and the way that they are delving into these social issues is such beautiful. However, I hope we do not see the vilification of Safiye as she deals with her OCD and Agoraphobia. After the reaction to 6. Bölüm of Sen Çal Kapımı it is clear that mental health is important to Dizi watchers. There is also something to be said of mental illness issues being depicted in a less than positive light in media.

Menajerimi Ara, the Dizi of My Heart 

Okay, if for whatever reason you’ve been reading my blog, you know that last week I made the outlandish claim that Menajerimi Ara is my favourite dizis of the season. I just wanted to start by saying, that after spending a week giffing the Bölüm, I have no choice but to accept the facts. I have great taste, and Menajerimi Ara is my favourite dizi of the season.

The bölüm starts with a sleep-deprived Dicle being put in another pickle as Feris wakes Dicle up early in the morning demanding coffee though none of the coffee shops is open. With Dicle not owning a coffee machine herself, she has no choice but to go to Barış for help… Because the famous and rich actor totally has one… and he’s her only hope (or so Meral insists).

With the help of Barış, Dicle can make coffee and meet with Feris who is still upset with Kıraç. Attention is drawn to Dicle because she is the one who told Feris that Kıraç plans. Lines are drawn in the agency with Kıraç on one side and all the other agents on the other. This tension is heightened since Feris is now Beren’s agent and Beren and Barış have been offered a new movie. Meanwhile, Kıraç is dealing with one of his clients, Şükran Ovalı trying to return to acting after the birth of her child and Çınar sets Jülide up with a small role in a dizi.

Beren and Barış are at a crossroads, to take the film role or not. Much like Şükran Ovalı, Beren wants to take the role to stay relevant in the film sector. Aydın, Barış’ brother also insists the film role would be good. However, Barış has doubts seeing the script is bad, and he wants to make something of his art.

With everyone telling him to do something, and Barış unsure of the best choice, Barış goes to Dicle asking for her opinion on the script, because she understands his desire to make it in the film industry and what it means to come from nothing. 

However, shit hits the fan when the news of Kıraç leaving is leaked in the press. This issue is resolved only to have another issue arise, Barış’ decision. At a dinner party Barış’ reveals he plans on turning down the role a thing he didn’t confide Beren in. Beren is hurt and becomes apprehensive of Barış’ relationship with Dicle. However, things become messier when it is revealed that Aydın is using his brother and connection with celebrities to make money. Barış and Dicle leave the party together, and go back to his house… and because this post is called “A Week Of “Git Me” you know how this episode ended.

Additional Thoughts/Questions:

  • Okay… So I am aware that in the fandom there is much debate about whether Barış is using Dicle. I completely understand why people take that stance. He only talks/pays attention to her when it suits his purpose (when he needed help on making a decision) or when he has to for work. However, I love Barış and Dicle as a ship. I also love the fact that the narrative is aware that he is like this (and isn’t romanticizing his lack of interest)… However, Barış does care, because he helped her run away from her dad in the first episode, he bought her pizza, and he fixed her light fixture.
  • However, I firmly believe that Barış is unaware of his feelings towards Dicle and her feelings towards him, and thus doesn’t understand how she’s interpreting their interactions. That being said if he hurts her feelings unintentionally or not… HE BEST BE READY TO CATCH THESE FISTS! 🔪🔪🔪🔪
  • As for Kıraç, the man just needs to get over himself, owe up to fathering a child, and stop hurting and trying to fire Dicle.
  • I also love how the film industry was shown in the episode. We see just how fleeting fame and fortune can be (from Jülide’s scenes being cut, to Şükran Ovalı, Beren, and Barış being worried about staying relevant). We also see that though the film industry is an industry that is dreamlike, sometimes compromises must be made to stay afloat and that actors can’t always have the roles that they want
  • Also, as you know from the previous blog post, I am a total hoe for handholding… and let me tell you, this week had me giggling when it came to the hand holding! It was so cute and Deniz’s hands are so BIG and Ahsen’s are so tiny in comparison! (I made an entire twitter thread). 

However, that being said, I would like to note that I am not a huge fan of the grabbing wrist method of hand-holding that Dizi-Land is obsessed with… 

 Maybe it’s the fact that I grew up watching Kuch Kuch Hota Ha and that method of hand-holding reminds me of Aman dragging Anjali to the wedding… but I hate it.

@ the writers of Menajerimi Ara, use your resources aka Deniz’s huge hands, and have him gently hold Ahsen’s in his… BELIEVE ME WHEN I SAY THE FANS WILL GO MAD!

(Yes, I am fans!).

On Wednesday We Watch Sen Çal Kapimi 

This week’s episode of Sen Çal Kapimi starts where the previous episode ended. With Selin shooting her shot and telling Serkan that she would drop Ferit for Serkan but before he can answer, Eda and Ferit interrupt him… And at that moment all I could do was roll my eyes and quote a wise woman who said:

“If you are so ready to drop your fiance for another man… Maybe don’t marry at all. Instead go to therapy?”

I cannot help but to agree. However, Serkan pulls a fast one and pulls Eda in for some casual hand-holding, making his intentions known (to Selin). Eda kisses Serkan confusing the robot man. 

Next, we see Engin who is meeting with Ceren to ask for forgiveness. However, I think it is important to note that Ceren is hiding the fact that her father is the bossman at the law firm she is working at, and she hasn’t told Engin this who believes she is a lowly intern. The only reason I bring this up is that as I have said repeatedly, the Engin, Ceren, Pırıl love triangle reflects the Serkan, Eda, Selin nonsense. That being said, in this episode Engin learns that Ceren comes from money, and I believe this will reflect Serkan’s finding out about Eda also coming from money and more about her family (and her grandma) in the upcoming episode. But to get back to the actual plot of the show, Engin eventually learns about Ceren and decides to distance himself from her, focusing more on Pırıl.

Eda talks to Ceren about her feeling for Serkan, and Serkan talks to Engin. Engin asks Serkan to prove that he doesn’t have feels for Eda by distancing himself from her. Ceren, however, asks Eda to dress in a way that would draw Serkan’s eyes to her. Eda dressed to impress is picked up by Serkan (who apparently can’t stay away).

Ayfer finds out about the contract and clause about Eda’s education and is immediately upset. She decides to call Grandma Yıldız to help Eda financially without Eda’s knowledge.

Serkan in an attempt to keep Eda close shows her a house that the firm is going to be working on and asks Eda’s help. She reminds him that she doesn’t work for him anymore and that the contract is void, seeing Selin is getting married. However, Serkan convinces her to stay and they discuss the house and the owner. I am almost 99% sure that this house either already belongs to Serkan, or that he is going to buy it for Eda. 

In a hilarious scene that is reminiscent of the drain the pool scene, Serkan tries to get Eda to stay in his life by having Engin offer him a job. Eda’s scholarship to Italy “mysteriously” comes through. With the prospects of Eda leaving haunting Serkan, he pushes everyone out of his life and finds himself becoming ill. Aydan calls Selin to talk to Serkan, however, unbeknownst to her, Seyfi calls Eda. Eda and Serkan read a bit from the book, The Little Prince a thing the folks at the DizzyForDizi podcast probably went crazy about.

Serkan’s fever takes for the worst and he starts having bad dreams. When he asks Eda to take him with her to Italy, Eda has but no choice but to stay and keep him warm. 

Which leads me to a random rant. What is up with the Turkish Dizis I’m watching and the characters choosing terrible sleeping positions? Like Serkan has a whole bed in his room, as do Han and Barış and yet all of these idiots decide the best place to fall asleep is on the floor or the couch. Your beds have got to feel better my dudes, make smarter decisions. 

Eda is hurt when she realises that Serkan has no memories of asking Eda to take him with her leaves. She is preparing to leave to Italy when Serkan pulls her car over…

and you know what he says! Serkan does what we’ve wanted him to do and confesses his undying love to her and they kiss.

Yeni Hayat or the Things I Do For Serkan Çayoglu

Okay, I have a confession to make. Though this part of the segment is called “The Things I Do For Serkan Çayoglu” and the post is called “A Week Of “Git Me” (Or Some Variant Of It)” I can’t recall this episode… lololol. 

I feel like that largely had to do with the fact that this episode felt a lot like a filler episode and I felt like they didn’t need 2 hours and 30 minutes to tell me what happened. The episode starts with Yasemin still “abducted” and asking for ransom money. Timur summons Adem and asks him and only him for help, pushing aside everyone else who works for him. Adem sees this as an opportunity to gain Timur’s trust, however, finds the events leading to Yasemin’s abduction suspicious. 

Nevin and Melahat face stress when she learns that Ferda, a woman in prison who has some connection to her and Ece starts asking for money or threatens to tell Adem the truth. 

I have a feeling that this Ferda lady may be Ece’s biological mother or the person who helped Nevin acquire a baby seeing that in the previous episode Nevin mentions she can’t have children of her own. 

While all of this is happening, Özgür, Timur right-hand man is jealous of Adem taking his place. Özgür’s wife Berna is also unhappy and seems to hate Yasemin planting thoughts in Gökçe’s head about Yasemin. 

Adem puts the plan to save Yasemin into motion, however, it is revealed that Kunduzi is working with Timur’s business partner whose name I can’t remember. It is then revealed that they have no plans on keeping Yasemin alive and plan on killing her. However, before they can, Adem saves Yasemin and is shot saving Timur.

Adem reveals to Nevin that he plans on continuing working for Timur, much to Nevin’s surprise. Then we get the most important episode in this whole damn show, the scene where Ece and Adem eat breakfast together. It’s freaking adorable and I literally cannot. 

Yasemin talks to Adem about why she wants to run away from Timur, telling Adem of the abuse she faced in her marriage. The episode ends with the Karatan family at breakfast when Adem joins them. Yasemin and Adem receive pictures of their kiss, and the episode ends with Timur’s phone receiving a message.

Additional Thoughts/Questions:

  • As you can tell, this episode doesn’t end with “Git Me” (Or Some Variant Of It), which may be why I don’t like this episode as much as I liked all the other episodes. 
  • However, with apparently seven dizi cancellations looming, I cannot help but be saddened by the potential loss of Yeni Hayat.
  • I am super excited about next week’s episode. I love how the show advertised itself as a show about adultery, yet we are getting a much more complicated story… 
  • and can I say I am super excited about next weeks episode… Adem teaching Yasemin how to fight? YESSSS!!!!


Yeni Hayat Bölum 1 Recap (Or I Continue to be Trash for Serkan Cayoğlu Pt. 1)

Okay Friends and Foes, I did it! I woke up at a reasonable time to watch Yeni Hayat live. I should probably give a special shout out to KanalD for having a live stream and a special shout out to my neighbours and roommates for being loud AF in the morning. What would I do without y’all (note the sarcasm).

Anyways, let me start by saying that when watched it live, I had no idea what they were saying so my reaction was pretty much :

  • Serkan is so beautiful
  • Serkan with a child is doing something to me… do I secretly want to have children?
  • Melisa Asli Pamuk is gorgeous
  • I don’t know what’s happening with Adem’s jacket, but will someone in the clothing department please go steal one of Cihangir Tepeli’s jackets please!

Firstly, I would like to say congrats to everyone that worked on the show, because I feel like the first Bölum of the show really did a good job of establishing the characters and really setting the tone and plot of the show.

Now, if you know anything about the show you probably know that the basic premise of it follows Adem (as played by the ever handsome Serkan Cayoğlu) being hired by a rich businessman (Tayanç Ayaydin) to be his wife’s (Melisa Asli Pamu) bodyguard. Now, if you know anything about me (or you managed to find my Goodreads account) you know that I would probably go wild for this premise. It’s literally the plot of so many good stories, from whatever it was Dolph Lundgren and Grace Jones had, to the plot of countless books, countless movies (in various languages), and tv shows… and as you will soon learn, I am total trash for this plot!

Recap (With Commentary):

The episode starts by establishing Adem’s military past as well as showing him to be a man who stands up for people, as he saves a random woman from being stalked and stabbed by her ex-husband. Immediately, the writers of the show seem to give us a bit of foreshadowing, as the man accuses his ex-wife of cheating on him with Adem. With the premise in mind, it’s not hard to understand that Adem is eventually going to be put into a position where he’s going to be looking after the well being of a woman (Yasemin), and he is probably going to cheat on his wife.

However, the question that came to me based off this interaction was whether Adem (in later episodes) was going to intervene when Yasemin is being abused by her husband (as indicated in the trailer).

From, there we get a bit of Adem’s home life, and honestly it was gut wrenching to watch, because the show establishes that Adem is happily married to his wife and that his daughter is cute-af. This made me really apprehensive about the rest of the show, because his family really seems lovely and yet I know the show is about infidelity.

Adem is apparently job-hunting, and all I can say about that is, mood! We get an adorable seen as Adem’s family throw him a surprise birthday party, before we get a match cut showing us that its Yasemin’s birthday. Now as someone who studied film in school, let me tell you, that match cut made my little heart flutter.

We are then introduced to Yasemin and Timur and their life. It is clear that they live quite luxuriously and are rich. Yet, the crew of the show were able to capture the tension between Yasemin and Timur so artfully and subtly. With just a hint of slow motion showing Timur holding Yasemin’s neck as he tells her he’s happy that she’s his, we were able to quickly understand that Timur sees Yasemin as property.

(The "it" here is meant to be you and is a translation error because Turkish doesn't have gender pronouns)

We are also introduced to Timur’s brat of a daughter, Gökçe, and honestly seeing Ipek Filiz Yazici in this role after watching her in Aşk 101 low-key blew my mind. I personally think it speaks of Ipek’s acting ability, because while I totally loved her in the role as Işik in Aşk 101, I despise Gökçe for being such so bratty and spoiled.

The scenes that follow show both Adem and Yasemin at home and the only reason that I mention this is because it’s indicates five things. Firstly, it reminds us of what we already know Adem is a great dad.

My reaction whenever we see Adem and his family together.

Secondly, we get a scene of Adem’s family watching a news report of him saving the woman from earlier. This scene stood out to me because his wife tells him to be careful, reminding him he has a family, which could be a potential hint that something might happen to his family is future episodes.

We then learn that Timur is receiving messages threatening Yasemin’s life in what I can only describe as straight from Community, down to the red car. Then, we have learned that Timur’s first wife died and we are introduced to the villains (led by Kunduzi as played by Nebil Sayin), who are plotting against Yasemin. Lastly, one of Adem’s old partners sees the news reports and goes to Adem asking if he’s willing to be a bodyguard, which Adem sees hesitant about (though his wife is overjoyed).

The next day Adem prepares to visit the Karatan household, and we get a very sweet domestic scene. However, as he’s getting ready Adem responds to his wife comments of him looking good by asking her if she’ll be jealous, to which she replies she isn’t, and all I can say is…

Adem meets with Timur, but is interrupted by Yasemin who is unhappy about being forbidden from leaving the Karatan property and additionally for having a bodyguard forced upon her… To which I say you wait Yasemin, you complain now, but if Dolph Lundgren and Grace Jones have taught me anything, thing are about to get hot and steamy. And it does as Yasemin and Adem have a bit of back forth, complete with lingering looks and what could only be described as eye fucking.

We get another reminder that Adem is going to cheat, as Timur mentions Adem’s loyalty to his wife. Later Nevin convinces Adem to take the job (he does, no surprise) and Adem’s family moves into the Karatan compound.

From there we establish that Adem is a great dad (again), that Yasemin is intent on getting rid of Adem, and that every female within the Karatan compound is attracted to Adem. This includes Gökçe who approaches Adem and openly flirts with him in a way that somehow made me annoyed and gave me second hand embarrassment. All I can say about this is, is Sinan, come pick up your girl before she makes a fool of herself (but not really since Ipek has Corvid).

From a conversation between Nevin and her friend we learn that Nevin might not be able to have kids and that Ece (probably) isn’t Adem’s child, a thing Adem doesn’t know. We get shots of Adem being Yasemin’s bodyguard, intercut with shots of Nevin and Ece shopping. Yasemin handbag get stolen, and Adem chases down the muggers, only to be admonished for this action by Yasemin. This causes Adem to grow suspicious of why she would care about the muggers. Everyone arrives at home, and Ece and Nevin see Adem and Yasemine from afar, and as soon as Nevin sees Yasemine, her face falls. The obvious answer to this, is Nevin is eating her words and is jealous… however based off the fact this a Dizi I’m watching… perhaps there is something more at foot.

Timur tells Adem that his first wife died because he was being extorted for money through someone threatening his first wife’s life. Timur apparently went to the police who weren’t able to solve the case. Not wanting the cycle to happen again, Timur asks Adem to investigate the case and Adem agrees as long as he is allowed to turn the blackmailers to the police.

That night, both Adem and Yasemin can’t sleep. Yasemin goes and sits on her balcony, while Adem goes outside. We then get perhaps the most important shot of the whole show as Adem starts doing some pull ups as Yasemin watches from a distance… and all I can say is I would like to thank not only God but also Jesus.

In the scenes that follow Gökçe drunkenly returns homes and shamelessly flirts with Adem, who turns down her advances. Yasemin watches this interaction looking upset (or maybe jealous), before she helps Gökçe, which ends with them fighting. Timur intervenes, and Yasemin (rightfully) calls out Gökçe for being a brat (and Timur as well), Timur shows his true colours by dragging her to their room where he physically abuses her.

The next morning both Yasemin and Adem are getting ready for an event. Nevin tries to casually tell Adem that she might not be as perfect as he might think she is. Nevin also tries to casually ask Adem if he finds Yasemin beautiful, to which he tells her Yasemin is annoying, reminding Nevin that Yasemin is just his employer. Timur and Yasemin are at an important lunch when a mysterious gunman opens fire on them, and Adem saves Yasemin. Which leads us to that scene, you know the one in all the trailers.

Adem and Yasemin end up in a random room in the kitchen, and Adem gives his bullet proof vest to Yasemin. And let me tell you, that women is dedicated because though she literally almost got shot, she still finds the time to check out Adem.

Okay, to be honest... I think she's looking at his gunshot wound.

Adem soon figures out that whoever is sending the messages probably is close to the family and informs both Yasemin and Timur of this. In the scene that follows we learn about Timur and Yasemin relationship, before learning that Timur is smuggling guns into the country.

This is when the plot kicks up as someone attacks Yasemin in her room. Adem chases him down as Yasemin slips away. It is revealed that the assailant is Fatih, Yasemin’s driver, and that Yasemin has slipped away to the Kunduzi, who she is working with. She wants to make it look like her life is in danger in order fake her death and get fake papers so she escape the Karatan’s. Kunduzi suggests that Yasemin seduce Adem in order to throw him off her scent. The episode ends with Adem finding a “knocked out” Yasemin.

Final Thoughts:

All in all I really enjoyed the show and as previously stated, I think it’s a great first episode. However, as of the moment, I am finding it really difficult to ship Adem and Yasemin because Nevin is still in the picture.

I love Yasemin, I really do. She is such a fun character who seems rather complex and I’m super excited to see more of her. However, I have also grown to love Nevin, even if she is hiding something from Adem, and I don’t want to see him cheat on her (especially because he seems so in love with her). Honestly, there’s a part of me that’s hoping that Nevin dies, so that I can ship Yasemin and Adem… #sorrynotsorry

My only other thought was I really need Gökçe, to get a hobby or something… Please stop flirting with Adem.

Theories & Questions:

  1. Is there a double meaning to all of the shots that involve mirrors. There are so many shots where Adem and Yasemin are looking into mirrors… So were these shots done for aesthetic purposes or is there symbolism that I’m missing…



  2. Does the show’s title has a double meaning? On one hand Yeni Hayat (translation: New Life) could be a reference to both Adem and Yasemin finding “new life” (Adem in his new job, and Yasemin as she tries to escape the Karatans and find a new life)…

    However, an alternate explanation can be found in the fact that both Nevin and Timur address Adem and Yasemine as “my life” (to my knowledge neither Adem nor Yasemin call their spouses this).

    Could this be due to the fact that “Yeni Hayat” is a reference to the fact that Adem and Yasemine will become each other’s “new life”.

  3. Is Yasemin seeing Adem’s gunshot wound and him around his family going to make her change her mind and decide to stop seducing using him to get her way?

  4. Is Timur’s first wife actually dead?

  5. Is something going to happen to Adem’s family and is Yasemin at all going to be involved in the kidnaping of Adem’s daughter? Also… will Nevin please die?



  6. Also, so the show establishes that Adem is a character that follows the rules. He wants to go to the police constantly and he clearly is very loyal to his family… So it will be interesting to see Adem’s demise as he gets close to Yasemin. However, I’m curious to know if he will find out Kunduzi and Yasemin’s connection and what he will do then…

Anyways, that it for now! Thank you for reading my nonsensical thoughts, and feel free to leave a comment… and see you next week as we continue to thirst for Serkan Cayoğlu.